and even more dysfunction

Mystified 123 wrote: torn between divorce or reconciliationPosted on 09/04/12, 12:07 pm


1)My husband about 2 months ago molested my daughter of 15 by touching her inappropriately while I was at work. I called the cops and had him arrested. He had raised her since she was 3 years old so I see it as extremely sick that he do such a thing. He tells me that he is repentant now and wants to get help. He says the reason he believes he did such a thing was has become addicted to porn and drank alcohol on the night of the offense. (ahh the I got drunk and watched porn and went after anything with a warm body excuse) always a favorite?? The bottom line is after much back and forth by various members she is folding like a cheap suit and throwing her daughter under the bus with this last comment, "He tells me that he is repentant now and wants to get help. He says the reason he believes he did such a thing was has become addicted to porn and drank alcohol on the night of the offense. He has asked that I wait for him to go through treatment and change to prove that he is different."" MY OBSERVATION? Financially she is between a rock and a hard place and as many women in this group I have observed many of their opinions are centered on that aspect. Too bad they arent realizing these guys are gonna cost them so much more than the rent money.. the other question is where was she while his addiction to porn was growing? How good of a provider and husband could he have been prior to the incident while feeding a porn and alcohol addictions? My recommendation? Mystified should stand back and consider herself lucky by ridding herself of this Not so BlueRibbon example of breeding stock.