Monday, May 26, 2014

Sex, Lies, and Sex Offenders - Part 2 - Sadistic vs Non-Sadistic Offende...

these are the guys pro sex offender groups say "dont exist"???

RICHARD GERE The Flock

and another "mother of the Year"?

Nwelsh218 writes: We haven't known each other very long. 2-3 months. No he hasn't had any grooming with my children, but hes not been around my children but 3 times. As far as "reoffending" he maintains his innocence. He was put away for ten years and has only been out for 1 1/2 years, He is going back for at least 20 months for failure to register an address. He hasn't had any other violations. The thing that bothers me the most are the lies. He lied about his name at first. I had to find out his convicted sex offender history on my own. He said it was a woman he knew who accused him of raping her, but then upon further research I discovered it was a child. He finally told the truth about what happened, but I don't know how to trust and believe someone who lied from the beginning. I love the guy. I really do. But I know in my family and circle of friends it wont be accepted. My best friend married a man who her best friend told her he raped her, she didn't believe her friend and now she finds out this ex husband, her oldest sons father, had molested her daughter for years. she didn't believe her friend she believed her husband. I am very torn. since hes going away for at least twenty months I have time to figure it out. I truly love him. I feel myself distancing myself though. My main priority is to protect my children. I don't think he is a bad man. But I cant wrap my head around the lies. Why not tell the truth from the beginning? He was afraid he would lose me. I feel like all the stuff he says could be a ploy to get into my life and be around my children when he gets out. But I don't want to think that way because I care about him and what if hes the real deal? What if he is the REAL DEAL??really?? I was hoping I could get advice from this support group as I don't have a lot of people who I can talk to. "Cant wait to hear the responses on this one"

Sunday, May 25, 2014

This is more than disturbing

Abrown83 posted in Families of sex offenders" Any other significant others dealt with something like this?Posted on 05/19/14, 12:23 pm "My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 months. He was placed on the SO list 8 years ago and he was very upfront about everything even before we started dating. He was involved in a sting operation and ended up with probation that ended last year. He lived almost all of his 20's hidden away from the world and I love love love being able to share so many things with him that he missed out on. We got season tickets for NHL and season passes to the zoo for us and my 3 kids. He lost a baby to a miscarriage prior to his conviction and grew up in an alcoholic/abusive home so I feel like I am giving him the family life that he never had the chance to experience. I love him and trust him 100%." 3 MONTHS together and LOVES and TRUST him 100%?? She goes on to write: "Last night I had a horrible dream that involved him being inappropriate towards my 6 mth old son that he is very close to (my son's dad has never met him and is not at all a part of his life, so my boyfriend has been like a father to him.) I have never consciously thought that my boyfriend would do anything to my children. I know that a dream is just a dream but I can't help but think that there had to have been some reason for that to have happened in my subconscious. Any advice on how to put this out of my mind so I don't allow it to affect me enough for him to notice? Short of refusing to "go with her gut" Someone who gives a damn about this idiot broad or her(3 kids) and no fathers ought to call child and family services and or recommend she buy a puppy rather than bring in a sex offender so she can show him All the things he missed?? Of course none of the other broads thought of any of this??Rather they recommended to be "open and honest" with him and eventually will LEARN to trust him?? Are you fucking kidding?? Yea allow this broad to "learn to trust" while using her kids as Bait.. gotta shake your head..

"this coming from a collection of deviants??

This website "families of Sex offenders" really need their own reality show. Here is the latest from people who spend their days demonizing the sex offender registry. "How many more lives do we need to lose from drunk driving before we have a registry? What if it saves one child, isn't it worth it? We deserve to know the people who negligently ruin the lives of so many every year. Drunk drivers have no rights, they lost them the minute they got behind the wheel drunk. We aren't punishing drunk drivers, we are just doing it for administrative purposes". From the excuses I read from this motley crew most would make it on TWO registries

Interesting

Seems "lifegonewrong" (what an under statement) wrote: why cant we look at the Megans Web Site?Posted on 05/23/14, 07:16 pm It seems if this Site is too protect kids why am I band from it. I am not allowed to protect mine kid because of MY sex crime. My kids and grandkids dont have the same rights? (his spelling not mine) Ahh the irony of it all. Spend my days defending the registry and "lifegonewrong" answers it for me..gotta smile.