mtbfan wrote: Ok, so we moved into a place, and the new neighbors had already said hello and welcome when they saw us moving in. They were told by the "landlord" that we are good people, and they would like us. The landlord does not know anything about our situation, but we made a very good impression. My guy is not on the public registry, so nobody would ever know his SO status. However, probation comes by every 4 months or so, and I know they will come by to see the new place. They always show up in pairs, heavy dark black clothing with guns. I am just trying to prepare myself to when they come, and if neighbors might be around. I don't want them to think we are anything to worry about, because we are not, but I know that people will think the worst when they see probation. I don't want to mention anything now since nobody may ever witness the "visits". I was wondering about a "cover up story" since I could explain that probation is good compared to jail, showing that he is no danger to anyone. Has anyone ever dealt with this or has any advice?
mtbfan, wonder what she will do if one of the Neighbors Happens to have access to her husband's criminal record? Then the neighbor spots probation and inquires as to "whats going on" and dumbass mebfan Lies to her or him? Goes to the landlord and well "what a tangled web we weave"?
Needless to say the respondents at DS encourage her to lie also in their subsequent post to her. But contrary to public knowledge, in as much as mtbfan wants to avoid any confrontation by her neighbors as to her husband's status and the answers she will inevitably LIE about anyway, this should go under my forum "How victims are born" .. and why convicted sex offenders should always be listed on a registry. Little do these idiots KNOW at DS, the amount of AMMO they handed me when their favorite topic of "abolishing the registry comes up" and How they "conspire" to lie to Neighbors/Public about status.