One post indicated from the resident (pretend voodoo) doctor that they hoped I was reading their post. How can you not? Its like a train wreck you cant take your eyes off of.
The title of the forum was "for those married to child molesters"
Mystified123 wrote a very prolific expose' that left me "high fiving" her in relevation about relationships. In this post she sounded healthy and grounded. the link is http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/families-of-sex-offenders/discussions/messages/14970507
Needless to say the comments degenerated by these examples:
Mamabear: I dont believe this is a healthy post. It may cause someone to second guess themselves. In a marriage you shouldnt have the option to run for the hills! Now of course when sexual offens comes into play it is def a valid reason but no one sin is worse than another. (keeping in mind) they are talking about married to those who are (CHILD MOLESTORS).
Honest witness: post was especially disturbing with the ". I am the former spouse of the man who molested two of my children. I am still connected to him through our children and "all the good things we had". But I am so glad I am not married to him any more. Interestingly, now that my children are adults, the same two that were molested are "convicted sex offenders themselves".( now keep in mind I had my ass handed to me for intruding on their site and bringing up the fact the Government Grant VAWA was a mismanaged and under utilized) program that in premise should be aimed at (helping the abused) and yet no one on this forum knew about it.
Continued: Believe me it gets worse: