Saturday, September 12, 2015
Families of Sex Offenders Discussion: My Son Is Trying To Figure Out Why He Abused a Child - DailyStrength
Now this is interesting, amazing how the topic degenerates into "bullying". But what is painfully honest is these people "don't have a clue" as to why their "loved one" chose to step over the boundaries of abuse and assault of children ..YET they are adamant their "loved ones" (registrants) are harmless now?? What could possess these people to spend the bulk of their days "bashing the registry, bashing SO restrictions and waging a WAR against the repercussions for sex crimes" and then on this forum admit "they really DONT KNOW why the people in their lives crossed over to abuse?? In fact it appears their "loved ones" still haven't admitted to the persons who are standing by them that somewhere along the way, the overwhelming compulsion to be sexually aroused by "children" clicked on and the attraction to a normal healthy adult relationship clicked off.
Yet these women don't or cant acknowledge that very real dynamic and have visions of going back to a place in time before any "clicking" occurred. I can only offer up this. These men are not redeemable. The women in their lives are meal tickets and caretakers. All the so-called sex offender treatment in the world isn't going to get these wires clicked back to a healthy circuit board. I cant even wrap my head around the vision of laying down, breaking bread or planning a future with some freak who threw his entire life away to Get off with little kids?????? and Yet I am the crazy one??
Posted by Valigator at Saturday, September 12, 2015