Monday, November 3, 2014

from the daily strength "families of sex offenders" site

Echo moon write "i honestly can't even begin to imagine or try to understand what her life must be like. to have her personal thoughts and demons eat at her every moment she breathes. to be so totally driven by such insane anger, bitterness, hatred and vindictiveness has got to rot the soul and what little there is left of the brain??"" Oh Really, seems to be a common theme among this group,a perception of some angry bitter old alcoholic that has nothing to do but pick on sex offender families. I think its time we get something on the table (not that it will help). I rarely drink, it doesnt feel good the next day and a woman my age has a tendency to wear the alcohol she drinks and I pride myself on my looks, and its really not a vice of mine, contrary to Oncefallen's interpretation of a picture of me at a fundraiser. I along with the Mayor, two city commissioners all played the game and all left sober and happy. The Mayor of Fort Lauderdale is in the background. "what life must be like" as echo ask? Life is good, close friends and family members and a man who for 27 years has never lied or cheated on me or MOLESTED MY CHILDREN. He stepped up to the plate with a single mother and they adore him, who are now out on their own.. I live in a beautiful home in fort lauderdale with a country club membership with which I enjoy many Sunday brunches with the people I love and who love me. I have a wonderful job with the best boss in Lauderdale and clients who appreciate and love me. That job has been ongoing for 25 years. I tried to retire 15 years ago but it was agreed that I needed to stay, and I am happy I have. I thoroughly enjoy hunting birds and alligators. Its my thing and I am very very good at it and a better shot than most people I know.My arrest and subsequent lawsuit against the police department that vindicated my stance that day is one I am especially proud of. I have no intentions of "expunging" it or hiding from it. Contrary to Oncefallen's inserts of felong convictions and multiple arrest record visions, I am not a felon and am very active in the republican party "in which I vote"! I have a concealed weapons permit of which I did not have "on me" the day of the arrest. I will encourage anyone who is curious to google Dale Weeks, Dale Weeks was the equivalent of Hannible Lector who happened to move into my neighborhood the week before the incident. Regardless of your feelings on the flyers, Dale Weeks was not going to live in my zip code-period and end of discussion. If you have a issue with that, my opinion is you can go fuck yourself, If another Dale Weeks moved into the neighborhood tomorrow, I would do the same thing again. I have no horror stories or horrendous tales of abuse as child, in fact I come from the most loving and caring and affluent families one could ever hope to have,so I cant really wrap my head around the horror stories I read on your site on a daily basis. It makes no sense to me, I dont get it, but more important I dont get how many on the daily strength can condition themselves to it. I dont hate you, and in as much as it soothes the daily strength group to think I wallow in hate, alcohol and demons, I actually have a very charmed life who think your post often mirror some very stupid and nieve' women who are an embarrassment to the rest of our species. You enhance that embarrassment when you align with sexual predators or offenders who on site you brown nose, but in reality are the source of Your predicaments. I can never quite square that in my head. My perception of your group is you have found yourselves in a very horrible position often by no actions of your own, but the longer you spend with the group You relish the pain of a new member so you can rationalize your position. New People come on with tales of woe, you welcome them and encourage them to make the wrong choices, so you wont have to be faced with making the right ones yourself. I have read absolute horrendous exposes' of scenarios these women pour out to you and you long timers actually encourage her to stay with these deviants, because You WANT her and her children who are often the victims, to stay in this dark place and re-enforce and validate YOUR horrible lives.I also believe in reform but True reform wont come from those who align with the "loudest mouths" and the worst criminal histories, True reform will come from non offenders with the loudest mouths (me) but I refuse to exert my extensive knowledge and efforts on those who thank, revere and hold in esteem the very deviants you and WAR, Sosen, RSOL hold up as heros. You know who they are, you know they are dangerous and you know they are guilty, but look to them as heros because they hold a common status?? I hope that helps (for many of you) it will be pointless, due to the fact you want me to be some lonely, desolate, angry, woman. Sorry to disappoint, I wouldnt change a thing about my life or my family (contrary to your heros references to people I dont know). What I do is a calling, it takes no effort and no regret. Is it harsh? most definitely, I suggest you get use to it. I also suggest many of you stand back and walk away from many of the losers who will be a rope around your necks for the rest of your lives, for others I hope a better place comes soon.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

heres a idea if the thought of reading their blog sickens you why don't you just stay off the blog and leave those people alone? they have enough problems without you scouring their site for your own blog. it seems to me you have some issues with having to PROVE yourself how many people on the INTERNET really cares how you live your life? you seem to get great joy out of trying to make people feel inferior to you just leave their blog and come up with your own.oh and I have read most of the posts you like to comment on you seem to love to comment on RSO stories I wonder why that is?

Valigator said...

reading their blog "sickens me"? did I write that? umm

Like I said, you dont comprehend a post just like you dont comprehend the repercussions of sex crimes.

Anonymous said...

OMG!!! are you kidding me??? I don't comprehend repercussions of sex crimes? as I have stated before it is YOU who does not have a clue let me give you some information shall I? or do you just like to hear yourself talk? I have 4 children 3 boys 1 girl my youngest child I raised myself yes I was a single father.and as such I HAD to work to pay child support for my 3 kids plus raise the one that was living with me in doing o I had to get a sitter to watch my son while I worked found out later my child yes my son MY SON was sexually abused by my baby sitters son how dare YOU tell ME that I do not comprehend the repercussions of sex crimes?? I lived it lady so you wanna play word games we can or you wanna come down off of your high horse as I said I was a single father trying to do right and take care of my child the way a MAN is suppose to that means get a job put a roof over my child's head clothes on his back food on the table get a sitter so I could provide for MY child. and contrary to the belief you have my son was not abused by a STRANGER it was by someone I knew and trusted so you want to tell me again how I do not "comprehend"? you are so full of yourself and you stat talking before you even get a clue and I suppose you are going to tell me how I was suppose to feel after I found out what happened to my child? now since you moderate your comments I expect to see this one. I want you to tell my child how I "don't comprehend" sex crimes

Valigator said...

Obviously this post stirred the pot. Derek is absolutely beside himself sending messages that infer I may be threatening his heirarchy in the perv world. Most of his comments consist of nothing more than bi-polar childish rants that do nothing but re-enforce his mood swings and give him sense of power.
All is can say to "anonymous" above is Your on the "wrong website buddy". No one takes any glee in your circumstances and I would venture you would recieve alot more substanative suppost and direction from another site that caters to families who were victimized by either aquaintances or strangers than one that focus's on the "support" of the offenders themselves. In all the thousand's of pages "families of SO's" post day in and day out, one would be hardpressed to find references to mental health and healing facilities aimed at "victims". The majority of Space, ink and time are spent by posters bitching, moaning and whining about any and all repercussions focused on the "perpetrator". The never ending droning about phone calls to the prisons, the canteen accounts, the lack of medical care, the visiting days and restrictions, the Sheer number of EXCUSES that ultimately end in blaming the victim for their tales of woe. You need to stand back and take an hour reading the voluminous bullshit this site consist of. Nothin for nothin but as an outsider lookin in, this horrendous trajedy that happened to your family has many factions that exposed your children's vulnerability to whom someone in your circle took criminal advantage of. Now you embroil yourself on daily basis with the bulk of posters who are PERPETRATORS?? and then go on to defend them? WHO are YOU and what kind of father does that? Like I said, your on the wrong site.

Anonymous said...

Just as I thought you have a way of twisting things around just because I don't adhere to YOUR way of thinking you try to question the kind of parent I am first off anybody can be a dad but it takes a REAL man to be a father one who does not shrink from his responsibility one who is there when their children NEEDS them you have no idea how many hours I sat holding my son how I felt bad how I felt like it was my fault that happened to him yes I have read what was on their site just like I always read what you post. you had the nerve to tell me I had not a clue as to what the repercussions of a sex crime was. since I was right instead of you saying sir I am sorry I made a mistake you have to try and bring down my character as a father. it seems to me you have a problem to admit when you are WRONG so lets try this again shall we? admit you were wrong in that I did not COMPREHAND the repercussions of a sex crime. and I do not take sides I just think that it is wrong for you to go on a site that is there for support for people who find themselves in the situation that they are in as I have said before I have also read many post's you have left on a lot of sites when it comes to sex crimes the only problem I have with all of these laws is if a person does harm a child and or rape a woman they should go to jail what I don't like is how they circumvented the US Constitution by making it retroactive meaning they violate the ex post facto clause not only in the state but the US constitution. just like how you defend your right to carry a gun.answer me this next question were you ever willing to fight and die for the constitution? have you ever raised your right hand and swear to support and defend the constitution against all enemies foreign and domestic? you see that's what gets under my skin people that rant and rave about who should have the right to live and or work wherever. but did not have the nerve to be willing to fight and or die for this nation. contrary to popular belief you never lose your rights unless you were a felon. the only rights you lose is own a gun and vote. you want to know what kind of father I am? one who was willing to fight and if need be die for this country not only myself but my 2nd child was in the air force my oldest is still serving in the army as of right now.that's the kind of father I am. when our troops hit the beaches of normady on june 6th 1944 they went there to rid a country of a tyrant the one that put in place the Nurnberg laws that striped the Jew's of their rights. The right to live to work where they wanted so to me who did serve when you put in place laws here that Hitler had in place in Germany its like spitting in the face of every man that hit those beaches.one other thing. I know people go nuts about RSO's on Halloween. I saw on your blog you had a news link to some of them that got in trouble on that day.what I did not see on your blog was about the guy in California that hit 3 girls that were in a crosswalk all 3 were killed. I did not see on your blog about a father that was killed by a driver when he went trick or treating with his kid killed. ok I think I have been on my soap box long enough lets just say we both agree to disagree and you were wrong about me not knowing a thing when it comes to sex crimes.by the way i do enjoy having these debates with you.

Valigator said...

Ok I'll state the obvious. You dedicated one sentence of that HUGE post to the victimization of your son.
The rest was in defense of those who victimized him.

Anonymous said...

no I will state the obvious you did not answer any of my questions in regards to the US Constitution and or willing to fight and or die for this country and not only that you still will not admit that you were wrong what I did in that post was try to explain why these laws in this country are contrary to the constitution you still did not answer my questions about not posting the kids killed in the hit and run you only see and or hear what you want thank you for making my case

Anonymous said...

oh and another thing only one person did what they did to my son. not all of those you claim did it and I told you I have a problem not with someone going to jail I have a problem with ex post facto laws and telling people where they can and cannot live saying were they can and can not go when I took the oath to defend the US constitution none of these laws were in place its wrong. as I have stated before HITLER did the same thing with the GERMAN jews stripped them of their rights to live and go places hence the Jewish ghettos sex offenders get banned. living out in the bush. so I will tell you again by you saying these people victimized him only one did got that? only one you can not say that every single person on the RSO list did it to my son only one and HE was not on a list come up with a new defense for your hatred.

Valigator said...

Anonymous said...
""no I will state the obvious you did not answer any of my questions in regards to the US Constitution and or willing to fight and or die for this country""
It would be my suggestion that you familarize yourself with the "constitution" its facets and its implications on society and the judicial in this country. The Supreme Court has twice upheld the public's right to know in the form of "Megan's Law". Either prior to your military service or Post military service you swore to uphold those laws. You cant pick or chose which ones you agree or disagree with. While I wont debate "constitutional law" with you I will insist the "framers" bulk protectionisms were designed and written for "law abiding citizens". Even then rarely does any country in the world offer up more protectionisms to felons than the U.S. does.

Valigator said...

""'you still did not answer my questions about not posting the kids killed in the hit and run you only see and or hear what you want thank you for making my case""
Dont be such a simpleton, I dont "deflect" that easy. You want to change topic to some horrendous headline that goes off topic and then "brag" you have made some kind of "case". Its a typical amateur pro-perv maneuver but still garners "no points for you" ..

Valigator said...

Anonymous said...
""oh and another thing ONLY one person did what they did to my son"" and
"""so I will tell you again by you saying these people victimized him ONLY one did got that? ONLY one you can not say that every single person on the RSO list did it to my son ONLY one and HE was not on a list come up with a new defense for your hatred""""

Now these were "chilling" remarks that had me go get another cup of coffee and ponder them. ONLY? How many times and How many Offenses against your child would it take for you to grasp this is unacceptable behavor? How many "victims" does it take (for the freak you seem to love to defend) to finally get you around to determining this offender is damaged and a danger to society? Its pretty obvious you consider yourself a martyr, whereas I think your kid should have been removed from your custody.I dare say the majority of the public would also, after reading those "ONLY" remarks..

Valigator said...

Which brings us full circle. I stand by my original comments (I always do), that NO YOU indeed do NOT comprehend the repercussions of sex crimes..your post "scream it"

Anonymous said...

you sure do have a way of not answering my questions. think back to my earlier post(if you can) I said they circumvented the US Constitution by saying that these laws were not a punishment but regulatory why do you think I said they CIRCUMVENTED meaning I knew what the courts said in regards to the RSO laws I thought by you being a so called expert you would have figured out what I was talking about I didn't know you had to have things spelled out for you. so who is the simpleton now?? Now lets get back to what I want from you. number 1 I am still wanting for you to admit you were wrong in your statement when you said I did not comprehend the repercussions of sex crimes. number 2 why do you only report on your blog about what a RSO does on Halloween why didn't you put n your blog about the 3 teens that were killed by a hit and run driver California or about the father that was killed when he took his son trick or treating?? and also you still have not answered my question about if you were willing to fight and or die for this the US constitution(which by the way I think you should read) I sat on that fence so did my sons to be able to give you the FREEDOM to say the horrible things that you say I was willing to die if I had to in order for EVERYONE in this country to be free I raised MY hand and took that oath. so if you can not answer my questions there is no need to come back at me and call me names .you seem to be really good at doing that. and oh by the way I bet I am a better shot then you are because I was trained by the best SMEPER FI

Anonymous said...

my god there is just no getting past that big head of yours is it what right do you have to say my son should have been taken from me I raised my son to be a fine young man who works doesn't do drugs made it through high school sorry lady there is no cracking a egg on your head you are lost broken and you have no concept of what the men and women fought and died for in this country you are in your own little world perhaps its best you stay there and rot I just thought I would try and talk some sense into you there is not enough (coffee) I can drink and or beer to get the evil you spout off of me I am done with this conversation and I am done with you you have no heart you have no mind and you have no soul I thought I would have a good debate with you but when you start to attack my ability at being a parent that's where I draw the line at least I was there for my son most men would run from their responsibilities you know why you can pick on those people and get away with it> because its the NEW JIM CROW if you don't know what I mean by that look it up on the internet so I shall bid you a very very fond farewell and you just waste you days looking for story after story so you can post on this blog of yours I have better things to do and I hope to god you cant reproduce because as much time as you spend on your computer looking for RSO stories you maybe neglecting your spawn

Valigator said...

I'll assume to not expect a Christmas Card this year??

Valigator said...

Wonder what the moderators of "families" would say knowing have their active members contact me with their hit and run comments everyday??? Some I print most I dont. I thought you numbnuts were given "orders" not to engage with "one whose name you will not speak"??? Wisconsonrsol isnt going to like this, in fact she probably would go more "nuts" than she already is, trying to keep the daily strength crowd in line can be likened to "hurding cats"..