tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8047685695090570114.post2464880464469399275..comments2019-10-25T20:23:44.824-04:00Comments on sexoffenderissues-valigator: Child Porn What does it mean??Valigatorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17120303299556237425noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8047685695090570114.post-67134543641403907202015-02-15T04:12:38.217-05:002015-02-15T04:12:38.217-05:00Comes up "page not available"Comes up "page not available"Valigatorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17120303299556237425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8047685695090570114.post-84947303583176420052015-02-14T16:34:29.874-05:002015-02-14T16:34:29.874-05:00I'll just leave this right here for you....
h...I'll just leave this right here for you....<br /><br />http://www.fedbar.org/Federal-Lawyer-Magazine/2010/The-Federal-Lawyer-September-2010/Columns/At-Sidebar-The-Porn-Star-Who-Saved-Our-Client.aspx?FT=.pdfAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8047685695090570114.post-76556131028379366022015-02-14T09:38:31.780-05:002015-02-14T09:38:31.780-05:00As I "observe" stories by "injured ...As I "observe" stories by "injured parties" not to be confused with "victims" it becomes a pattern for these mothers, wives etc. to distance themselves from the actual heinousness of the crime itself.<br /><br /> Perhaps its a self defense mode these people go into to rationalize their "choices" to stay with the offender. <br /><br />Perhaps it is a self esteem issue that keeps them aligned with the offender. Maybe sheer fear of their lack of ability to maintain a family unit comes into play? Early "investment" into the offender after arrest seems to be an overwhelming "excuse" to defend the offender to family members and friends even if the injured party decides its not in her best interest. I use "her" due to the most common scenario. <br /><br />Often I read where the wife, spouse, mother or girlfriend had "abuse" issues prior to the relationship that were never fully resolved or dealt with. So they rationalize they "survived" it and so can the "victims" of their significant other. The last being "COMMON, VERY COMMON" and the one I have the least tolerance for. Valigatorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17120303299556237425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8047685695090570114.post-14223277727377595712015-02-14T09:12:55.171-05:002015-02-14T09:12:55.171-05:00I have to interject one important caveat to this s...I have to interject one important caveat to this subject .. The arrestee will USE the same scenario of "excuses" when molesting their own children and or step children. I have written my observations on that crime previously on this blog. <br />Smarter persons than myself have concluded that CP is often not an island unto itself. It is often used as an exhilarant Prior to committing a "live" crime and or is used to "relive" a live crime. The ages of the children, length of time the person engaged and the amount of pornography confiscated are HUGE indicators of of those arrested have "live bodies" under their belts. <br />These factors being disclosed as I stated earlier often are not Known to the injured parties at the time of the arrest. Subsequently "choices" made in the initial days of arrest, may not have been the same "choices" if all the details of the crime(s) were initially exposed to the light of day.. <br /><br /><br /> Valigatorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17120303299556237425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8047685695090570114.post-43505068121572022962015-02-14T08:28:19.624-05:002015-02-14T08:28:19.624-05:00I have also observed from reading stories from imm...I have also observed from reading stories from immediate family members that often the "entire story" is not disclosed into well after the arrest. The state takes its sweet time doing the forensics and when the final charges are tallied up, its another "hit in the gut" for family members. I have often read where the wives, mothers and other interested parties have some distorted vision that the images were actually some 22 year old dressed up like a middle schooler in a Catholic uniform only to find out the cold hard truth that the images were 6,7,8 year olds being brutally raped or "tenderly" (choke) molested by some 40,50 or 60 year old in all of its slow horrendous graphic detail. <br />By then the family is invested with the attorney, the system and all the other details of the arrest and has no choice but to suck it up with a few choice arguments, shallow promises by the arrestee and the reality that the entire relationship has been based on a lie. If children are involved the methodical, painful recollections of each interaction, each time the person was left alone with the child starts to envelope the brain with a panicked doubt and fear. But inevitably when those "doubts" rear their head, the promises, the denials are "practiced" and once again, placate the injured party. After a while, the arrestee decides he is tired of placating, becomes defensive, antagonistic and angry if the subject is brought up again. It now becomes the "families" fault. The pressures of being the provider, the pressures of the job, pressures of mortgage and utilities Pressure, Pressure, Pressure .. Valigatorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17120303299556237425noreply@blogger.com